by Rich Albright

When Sex Is Missing from Your Marriage - The Problem

Differing levels of sexual desire can rob a marriage of an important source of connection. If not managed well, this can lead to a loss of confidence, decreased intimacy, anger, and frustration. While differing libidos can sabotage intimacy within a marriage, other less obvious factors can also lessen connection. Such things as illness, physical limitations, depression, conflicting schedules, child-rearing responsibilities, embarrassment, self-consciousness, or general apathy can also lead to deterioration of a marital sex-life.

It is important to realize that great marriages don’t just happen. They require intentionality. The same principles apply to your sex life!

So, what does God have to say about our sex lives?

1 Corinthians 7:5 tells us not to deprive each other, so that temptation can be avoided.
Proverbs 5:18-19 encourages men to delight in the love of their wives.

Certainly, God has designed us to enjoy sex in marriage.


Next week - When Sex is Missing from Your Marriage - The Solution